Tuesday, 3 December 2013

Life Update!

Hi Guys, Apologies for my lack of #TheWinterProject posts this week, personally for me there are too many gift guides out there and I don't have time to put my own together! A few weeks ago I promised that I'd update you all on some of the goings on in my life that have contributed to my blog going quite, then back up but less regularly and the same with my twitter. Feel free to start snoring now if you have no interest in my life - haha!

Okay, so you may know that back at the end of July mine and Lee's relationship broke down and unfortunately that resulted in me having to move out of our home together, luckily after a few weeks completely apart and then taking things slowly, we are now better and stronger than ever and I can honestly say that I love him more everyday. At the beginning of September we both made the decision that I would not move back into our home as we had asked our letting agents to put it back up for let and someone new could move in at any time. Instead I spent from Thursday - Monday with Lee and Max at the house and the rest of the time at my Grandparents. It just so happened that it has taken until two weeks ago for our house to be re-let and so now Lee has to move out too. He is going back to live with his parents whilst he saves up for a deposit to buy a house and I'm staying put, only staying together from Friday until Monday morning. We've done it for one weekend so far and it's not going to be easy, but hopefully some of you lovely lot will help me keep sane and I know that he's worth it.

For a number of personal reasons I've really not been myself for pretty much the entire year of 2013. It's been exhausting both physically and mentally and I can honestly say if it weren't for this blog and some of you guys it would have been so much harder so I want to say a whole-hearted "Thank You" to anyone who has tweeted me when I've been down and given me a little encouragement that life's not all bad!

Any of you who have followed me and this blog for a while now will know that my Dog is hugely important to me, I make it no secret that I would not be here today if it weren't for him. Recently he's become very poorly to the point that last Friday the 29th we were told he was just a day away from death if something wasn't solved quickly. Luckily we have a fantastic vet that put him on a drip to get him strong enough to be operated on for the second time in two weeks and saved his life. He went from being limp, lifeless and miserable to the happy chappy we know almost over night. I have never been so terrified in my life before, for the past four weeks I've had no sleep for sitting up watching him, making sure that he's still breating and I keep crying with relief that he's on the mend. Thank you again to everyone for their love and support, I know most will think "He's just a dog" but a lot of people understand!

I'm honestly really looking forward to 2014, I know that most people will say and think this but this has genuinely been one of the worst years of my life and one that I never, ever want to repeat. I really feel as though I am settled in a job that I adore and fingers crossed it wont be too long until my little family are back together under one roof!

So, overall, watch this space for a hopefully happy and healthy 2014 for me and my little family and I hope that I can grow my blog alongside it! What are you thankful for in 2013 and what are you looking forward to next year?

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